Jennifer Lawrence Explains Why She Declined an On-Set Intimacy Professional on New Film Die My Love
The acclaimed actress has become part of the increasing number of actors who voice skepticism about the necessity of on-set intimacy professionals, explaining she opted against their assistance while working on her new movie Die My Love.
Examining the Role of On-Set Intimacy Professionals
Intimacy coordinators were introduced following the #MeToo movement to ensure the security and comfort of performers during scenes involving partial undress and sexual content. Yet, numerous well-known actors including Gwyneth Paltrow and Sean Bean have voiced concerns about their presence, with some suggesting they disrupt artistic process.
Jennifer's Personal Experience
Speaking during the popular culture podcast, while discussing her new film where she plays a character experiencing postpartum disturbance, Lawrence stated: "We did not have such a professional, or perhaps we did have one but didn't really utilize them... I felt completely safe with Rob."
She elaborated: "Rob is not pervy and deeply devoted to Suki Waterhouse. Our conversations primarily focused on family life and relationships. There was absolutely no uncomfortable moments or questions about professional limits."
"Had there been the slightest indication of discomfort, I definitely would have requested an intimacy coordinator. Many male performers get upset if you don't reciprocate their attention, and subsequently the retaliation starts. Rob was completely different."
Industry Recognition and Continuing Discussion
Recently, industry platform IMDb formally acknowledged intimacy coordinators as a separate category, alongside eleven other crew positions including dance direction, craft services, and puppet operation. Before this, they were grouped under "additional crew" rather than having their own designation.
Notwithstanding this validation, intimacy coordinators continue to face public discussion implying they aren't necessarily industry essential, with well-known actors declining their participation. Lawrence's perspective echoes that of Jennifer Aniston, who previously revealed she refused professional supervision while filming alongside her co-star on The Morning Show.
Aniston's Experience
"He proved to be such a gentleman – I mean each action, every cut, 'Are you OK?" she recalled. "It was additionally carefully planned. That's the benefit of working with talented directors, appropriate music. So, you don't prepare."
She added, "Production suggested, 'Having someone check if you're comfortable,' and I thought, 'Honestly, this is awkward enough!' We're experienced professionals – we can handle this. And we had Mimi on set."
Other Examples and Professional Response
Despite featuring numerous scenes of intimate moments and frequent nudity, the award-winning film – Sean Baker's Oscar-winning project about a sex worker and a wealthy heir – filmed without an intimacy coordinator.
Mikey Madison explained she and fellow actor her screen partner "concluded it would be preferable to maintain privacy."
"My character is a sex worker, and I had studied the director's work and understood his dedication to realism. I was professionally ready for it. As an actress, I approached it as part of my job."
Her comments provoked strong reactions from intimacy coordinators, similar to the reaction to another actress's recent comments, who recently revealed that working on her new movie her latest film represented her initial experience with the relatively new profession, which she "was unaware of previously."
Paltrow's Perspective
During filming about personal ease with a specific move alongside fellow actor Timothée Chalamet, Paltrow answered: "I'm from the generation where you get naked, you get in bed, the filming begins."
She continued that she and her co-star then told the coordinator: "We believe we're good. You can maintain distance.' I don't know how it is for newer performers, but... if someone is instructing, '{OK, then he's going to place his hand here,' I would feel, as an artist, very stifled by that."
Industry Response
Following these comments, industry executive Caroline Hollick described them as "irresponsible" and highlighted that the majority of those speaking against these professionals have established careers to maintain personal authority and protection on film sets.
"Periodically an performer makes comments about whether they appreciate on-set professionals or not," said Hollick. "The actress mentioned she grew up in a time when people in Hollywood 'took our kit off and got on with it'. As a established actress in Hollywood performing alongside a actor considerably junior than her, while I'm sure Chalamet is chill, I considered it quite an irresponsible remark."
Actor's Viewpoint
Michael Douglas, meanwhile, shared that he feels the main obligation during intimate sequences falls on the male actor, instead of a external professional.
"Based on my career, you assume duty as the male actor to ensure the woman is at ease, you talk through completely," he explained. "You communicate, '{OK, I'm going to make contact there if that's acceptable'. It's very deliberate but seems like it's occurring organically, which is hopefully what convincing acting looks like."